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Does online dating work?


As a matchmaker I get asked this question a lot. It is a topic that I researched thoroughly before deciding to launch Match Made in Scotland. As someone who found their partner on a dating site 6 years ago I loath to say that it does not work however I have many people that come to me for my services and they would beg to differ. I think the real question is ‘Can online dating work?’ If you were to ask me this question I wouldn’t hesitate to say yes, as I know many people (myself included albeit 6 years ago) who have found their partners online. However, if you were to ask me “Does online dating work?” I would be reticent to say the same.

Here are 5 reasons why I think that being successful with online dating can be a challenge. 

What to wear on a first date

What to wear? That is the question! On our recent blog post 'How to make a great first impression on a date', we said that how we dress is of great importance as a propective partner will make a judgement within 7 seconds of meeting you. 

Dates these days come in all shapes in sizes so we have asked NYC/London Based Style Coach, Beverly Osemwenkhae, CEO & Founder of Project Bee for her advice on what to wear on a first date in Scotland.

Here are her excellent tips

How to make a great first impression on a date

Yes! you have done it! you have met a great person and are heading off on your first date! But you haven’t been on a date in a really long time and you are nervous. Don’t worry- we have got you. 
First impressions count. Scientists say that you make a judgement of someone within a tenth of a second of meeting them so it is extremely important to make the best first impression you can. 
We know that first dates can be extremely nerve-wracking however we have compiled some great tips to help. 

Why is finding love harder after 30? 


When you are in your 30s or older it seems like everywhere you look, everyone else has found their soulmate and you are the only one struggling to find the one. Although it may not seem like it, you are not alone. Men and women in their 30s are having the same problems when searching for love despite when social media tries to convey. Seeing Facebook and Instagram full of loved-up couples and happy families may make you wonder why you are finding it difficult to find your partner when others are seemingly living in bliss- here are a few reasons why. 

10 Reasons why you should use a Matchmaker

When it comes to dating, I think it is fair to say that it is probably everyone’s preference to meet their future partner organically whether that be in a bar, through friends or perhaps at work. Unfortunately it doesn’t always happen like that. It’s becoming increasingly more difficult to meet people in this way especially this year due to covid and constant lockdowns. The obvious solution is online dating sites and apps but for many reasons people are seeking other alternatives and the use of matchmakers has significantly increased over the last few years. If you are wondering if a matchmaking agency is right for you I compiled a list of 10 reasons why you should use a matchmaker.

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